Reaching out for support and advice 4

[bluesgal]

Lots of ups and downs from H. Verbal commitment: "I'm trying", but no true emotional intimacy.

We went camping together over the holiday weekend. He was present physically. He likes to do the thing where he talks about our future. We should do this or buy that or fix this. But no emotional connection. None. He continues to run from his problems. I will continue to seek legal separation. Once we go to court in June, I will separate all of our finances and assets with his ok. I need to protect my kids and myself.

He is not well. I want someone healthy. Someone who values me. Ugh. This is hard, but I'm getting more independent.