Heather, the opening song represents both to me. What W and I do have, and what I hope we'll have. Do I dream and fantasize a bit? Yep, and don't intend to ever stop!

Originally Posted By: Matt
Us standing H's are hard to find and everyone of us on these boards are good men who take our vows seriously and if all people took them as seriously as we do (and they should be) we wouldn't have the D rate or so many long, good marriages ending in so much pain for everyone involved. We have to remember that everyone we see here on these boards are the good ones. The ones who are trying, each in their own way too keep their vows. If only there were more of us out there!


I couldn't agree more. It's one of the main things that attracted me to this board, and kept me around so long.

Originally Posted By: Heather
Does your W want to heal the sexual stuff?


Not that I'm aware of. Based on past conversations, it wasn't even on the radar as an issue.

Mach, lots of good questions and thoughts there. It'll take me sometime to digest it all. I regret what it took to get you to show up and post to me, though.




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M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl