The subject of H and his friends is a problem for the future. Does knowing he surrounds himself with that energy make it easier to detach?

Your buddy broke your confidence and also exposed his romantic feelings about you to your H. Wonder what his motive was?

Another reason why the general advice is share your story only with those you can trust absolutely.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss