Starsky, there is absolutely no reason for apologies. You were right, and you gave me good, honest, straightforward advice. I just wasnt ready to follow it. I did see it, i knew you were right, but wasnt man enough to put it into action. too much fear of confrontation. too much fear of doing the wrong thing.

and this is why i see what i see in Oxfords situation.

if she fell in love with Oxford for being manly and strong, then Oxford needs to be manly and strong now. and this means includes making the hard decisions.

Last edited by KenF; 05/28/14 03:01 PM.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".