No i didnt fail to mention or notice those things any more or less than i chose not to bring up the fact that you took advantage of your W while she was passed out and that was one of the reasons she left the marital bedroom.
Not everything needs to be rehashed to make a point.
Yes i said Jack gave up. So did he. And it did matter. To his situation it mattered.
You would have known that, as well as understand his perspective better if you had spent some time perusing the archives. There are reasons new people are told to read back. There is so much to learn from others there.
Fy, you are determined to do whatever it is you think is working. My X and i remained in the same house and did things together for 4 years post BD. It doesnt hold the meaning you are placing on it until she says it does.
Good luck.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
