Starsky was there giving me the same advice and i should have taken it. But i was scared. i took the non-confrontational way out. I chose inaction.
Yeah, I do remember beating you up pretty good, Ken -- sorry about that. There was another "Ken-something" username back then too that was doing much the same thing, and I even seem to recall myself posting something about "What is it with guys named 'Ken'??!"
Don't be too hard on yourself. We can never see our own sitches the way others can from 10,000 feet -- I certainly couldn't! If you go back to MY old threads, you can see Corri and NOPkins and Hairdog and many other of the old vets giving me lots and lots of 2x4's.