That would have irritated me too - the decoration in the condo. You're right - it's still yours too as long as your name is on the mortgage. Just let it roll off your back, not worth the wasted energy that you could be spending on you. Glad you had a good vacation!!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs