also Starsky... Im not sure if you are up to date with that male x-friend. He tried to intentionally sabotage any chances with my X. As he wanted me for himself. I just found out that he would call my X in the middle of the night telling him about "us".. even though there was NEVER an "us". He told lies of how we were "together" to other friends, etc. So.... I have a real HATE on for this guy & do not trust him. When this all broke loose a few weeks ago, my Xbf had concerns that I needed to clear up. I had to earn & gain his trust on this issue. My honesty to Xbf was to inform him that he was making an attempt at reconnecting again... that is what my motivation was for telling him yesterday. To just be honest. I have NOTHING to do with this guy!!
