I don't know about this... because initially I thought I shouldn't tell him about that male text offer, but felt that I was hiding it. So, I took the honest approach. I did not say it to him in a "be-jealous" way. It was matter of fact. I just wanted to be honest. Not for reaction. As for him, I think he was basically just telling me that he wants to present an offer & will be using her to do so.
I don't see any game playing.
Maybe you don't.
Maybe that's part of the problem.
Or maybe I'm just wrong . . . I certainly could be.
Just thought I'd throw it out there. But I do believe that when multiple people, from multiple backgrounds and experiences all tell you the same things . . . that it's worth considering. I only threw it out there because you're always saying "Please show me where I ________." And so I did.
