I don't know about this... because initially I thought I shouldn't tell him about that male text offer, but felt that I was hiding it. So, I took the honest approach. I did not say it to him in a "be-jealous" way. It was matter of fact. I just wanted to be honest. Not for reaction. As for him, I think he was basically just telling me that he wants to present an offer & will be using her to do so.
I don't see any game playing.
We just got off the phone. Last night he called that agent & asked her to draw up the papers to put in an offer.
I guess my job is to not act/be jealous.... but I am! This is my nose out of joint. Because he is doing this "without" me in partnership/relationship.... although he is informing me & keeping me in the loop.
As for the dinner thing... I don't know... Yes, I used to enjoy it because it was an outing for both of us & free. He would use this "free" dinner as a date night for us (he can be cheap!!). I don't go to network & meet other people, its too busy for that. I feel that If I go, it makes me look desperate to accept any of his time and its not even a real date.
Starsky?... your thoughts on association cocktails?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
