Well, this has been fun. Funny how a misstated comment can pull folks outta the woodwork!
Linda, you have such a loving heart. I can’t believe it will be long until a new man wants to be part of your life.
TVS! So glad to hear from you. I hope things continue to improve in your M.
Originally Posted By: Takevowsserious
Keep finding ways to connect with her emotionally FY. Not just spend time together doing an activity, but not really connecting. Think. Think of things that may draw you two closer.
Or as someone very wise has told me, numerous times, show her the possibilities of what could be...
^^^This, is exactly my plan. W seems plenty comfortable around me emotionally. Tells me nearly everything about her life. And of course, I've become the best listener. This wasn't always so.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
