RL, I'm glad you returned to post an update. I'm sorry about your divorce, but at least now, you can breathe a sign of relief and know that you are no longer responsible for any joint debt he may incur.
I'm not at all surprised that she wants to move here. That was her goal all along and now she just needs to figure out how she's going to use him to get over here. Once your xh moves out, things should settle a bit more and then you can redecorate to your heart's content.
One day, if he should wake up, he'll be asking himself wtf did I do? I agree...he's going to be sorry for what he's done and it will too late because you will have already moved on w/your life. All I can do is shake my head and think "poor fool".
RL, live your life to the fullest...you've earned your halo!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
