Thanks everyone

Pocket knife he has had forever. He did buy one for ow recently that looks like his. I am sure the movie will make h more paranoid.

H retained divorce attorney. My lawyer can't wait to cream him. I am not sure if he filed or what, and he is unclear too. Dumba$$. Spends several k and dies not know wtf he is doing. Yet again he lied as situation he was waiting for is not over. I had a few tears but am doing ok. FIL was very upset apologizing for his son. Told him I cannot help h, he is his problem now, I just hope he shapes up for kids. Worst part is he kept our youngest home from school and took her, she was in a room alone while he did this. H also had the guts to say it would be worse on him than kids or me. Wtf...your kids will hurt most. Ugh...need a 2 x4