Hoping to find my way

[Spartan]

Someone sent this to me when I was at the stage you're at. Hope some of these help a little:

Letting Go (Of Control)

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for
someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control
another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural
consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my
hands.
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To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most
of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow
others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it's to permit another to face
reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" it not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day
as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less, and love more.