I can't do it anymore. I can't be nice while he acts like a jerk. I just can't. He spent my half of the state tax return and ignored my questions about it till I just wouldn't stop today. He finally asked me if I could wait till next week for the $$. He is going to Florida with OW and her kids and spends SOOOOOOO much time with her boys, taking off a ton of time from work when he won't do that for his own kids. He lies to me all the time, acts like he doesn't care then calls me to ask a random question about a coupon. I am done! I can't wait to go to court. I guess I should move my thread to surviving divorce as even though I am so ANGRY now, actually wanting a divorce I know I will need some support/encouragement to make it through. Everyone here, thank you. You have made me see how horribly f$!#ed up he is. If this is "affair fog" then I hope his "boat of life" crashes into the rocks.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction