What is my Next Move?

[Oxford1]

Oxford,

She says when she comes back we should make all these plans etc..
she even wants to go out for our anniversary.

I would ask that you read ^^ out loud....how's that sounding to you in the context of the active affair with the OM?

What DO you want? What are your boundaries?

What I want is for her to end this dumb fantasy she is in...
I don't know why she does not see OM for what he is like all his other APs eventually did.

What I want is my wife and my family back...