What is my Next Move?

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What decision are you looking to make? Decide between what?

I have been told that when she returns she should find a letter telling her I have left and that when she decides to work on our marriage then I will consider coming back.

Thing is we are financially strapped right now due to some bad decisions..

I so wish I could just leave...

I know my S16 would want her to, but I am doing all the dad stuff , taking him to school etc etc..
If I leave she has to do all that stuff..she won't be able to work out in the AM ,
Blab on the phone with OM...she will have to be his Mom...