I agree Job. Most of us would have no problem, just the other 2. So 2 celebrations it is What kid wouldn't want 2 any way! His sister and mom finally made a decision to come. this is been an issue with me for 20 years. They could never make plans and commit to anything. They live 3 hours away and didn't think they needed to let us know whenever coming up. Drove me nuts but no longer have to worry about that!!
I find I'm in a little strange position with H's OW's H. We have been communicating quit a bit. Kind of interesting getting his position. He really wants to get his wife back. For months he didn't know about my H or why his wife wanted out. I told him to no longer ask about my H, act like he doesn't exist. Stop acting like we care....I'm sure they're sneaking around will not be as exciting. Specially when there's a long distance between them. I directed him here to read. Not mine
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.