I am on the brink of doing something extremely stupid, but feel that I have to make my point.

The house sale is due to become final, possibly by the end of this week. However today a neighbour called to inform me that some one has started doing work to the house. I know NOTHING of this, and two texts to my X have gone unanswered.

Right now I am planning on calling him and demanding an explanation. Calling the estate agents and telling them that if work doesn't stop I will call the police (well a police friend, but the needn't know that) and threating all concerned with pulling out of the sale.

Cutting off my nose to spite my face? Maybe, but I am at the end of my patience with all of the "goings on" and decisions being made without my consultation. I want to make my point loud and clear...