Forever, you and I have been friends a long time on the forum and the alt too, and we have occasionally disagreed on the issue of Standing. Okay, we have frequently disagreed about Standing. Most of our disagreements have stemmed around my contention that you, with your kitty cat MLCer, no kids and no OM, have no idea what is it like to live with a MLCer who is physically cheating, physically and mentally abusive, and wildly going thru your life savings as if there is no tomorrow. But I can see your point always, and always have had the utmost respect for you.
But FY, to accuse UR of not honoring her marital vows. You know her story. You know the crap UR's husband put her thru, how he ruined her financially and was abusive. How he cheated on her. How he put her down until she was an emotional basket case. Hell, UR and you and I have sat in person, and had dinner and drinks. I am, to say the least, flummoxed by your post. And do not understand. UR honored her vows until the end, and still cares about her crazy ex. I don't understand....
And Wonka, how nice to "see" you, my old friend. Still fiercely defending your friends, God I love that about you! I wanted to let you know I am a divorced woman, as of May 19th!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
