I'm a very lucky person, but still fine tuning

[woundedfool]

Wounded

I was looking for posts about your current situation. I mean you help me soooo much and I just started to think,,,what is going on with you. I dont see any posts about yourself.

Not even sure how I could help,,,just wondering

Thank you for the offer, but no help needed. I am content where I wound up.

While each situation is different (yet the same) mine was created with a WAW who did not (and will not) address her own demons (not implying I am without fault, or the perfect husband). So an opportunity of R never presented itself. Essentially, my situation required a full blown "hand of God" miracle to prevent a D.

Now, all that being said... While I am not holding a candle in the window for her. But.... I would still meet at a table to find if there would be a way for us to find each other again.

The alien stole her in Feb 2013, and is yet to return her... as she has told me the grass is not greener, is miserable, etc.

But I cannot put my life on hold for her, I can only work and keep myself (and child) happy & healthy. Kind of like the line from the Shaw-shank Redemption: "get busy living, get busy dying". I chose (and continue to choose) living.