Had a great long weekend with D7...pool, splashpad, ice cream, park, dinner with family.
Didn't see or talk to H much. He seemed annoyed that I asked my brother-in-law to install a new garage door opener for me. I was going to pay for installation, but my sister suggested that I have her H do it instead. My H acted as though he was bothered that I didn't ask him. First, I don't want to rely on him for those things. Second, the few times I do ask him for help, he either procrastinates or tells me he is unavailable. He did come over yesterday afternoon to help my BIL when he was almost finished. Still, I thanked him for his help.
Also yesterday, he called and asked if I could trade with him this week. He wanted to make plans on Wednesday even though it is his night and asked me to let him have D7 on Tuesday (tonight) instead. That means that we still haven't gone one week since he moved out without chaning the schedule per his request. I initially told him I'd have ot let him know because I had tentative plans. That was true only in the sense that I had tentatively planned to make plans. He then called me and told me what plans he wanted to make and asked me directly what my plans were. As if we were supposed to compare and negotiate whose took priority? I ended up making a compromise with him. I told him that I would trade with him and reshecule my (non-existent) plans, if he would agree to be at my house early this morning to get D7 ready for school and drop her off. I needed to be out of the house earlier than usual to get to work early. He agreed...
And then was 10 minutes late this morning and was pi$$ed off that I was annoyed about that. That resulted in an argument that certainly doesn't help me out. I don't ask for much from him and he can't do stuff even when he says he will.
I'll see him at D7's swim lessons tonight, so I need to put on my PMA before I get there.
On another note, I sent H a link to the website of the therapist I liked for D7. He agreed that she seemed good. I called today and made an appointment for her for two weeks from now.
He then called me and told me what plans he wanted to make and asked me directly what my plans were. As if we were supposed to compare and negotiate whose took priority? I ended up making a compromise with him. I told him that I would trade with him and reshecule my (non-existent) plans, if he would agree to be at my house early this morning to get D7 ready for school and drop her off. I needed to be out of the house earlier than usual to get to work early. He agreed...
