Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

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Does anyone have DB mouth clamp or staple gun?
Its so hard not to just start yapping away and throw in a bit of pleading so they will stay. I guess in my case its because as you said sandi2 I am trying to talk her out of it now that the end is near ( i mean as our separation approaches) 180 and detach I know.
All she said was "how do you feel about living with ___?" and I should have just said "fine" with a huge 180 smile. Instead I crumpled and told her "how do you think I feel I am rolling with the punches (you have given me)" *sigh*
open mouth, insert foot. Well I am going to fortify my willpower now and just talk with as few only positive words as possible. DB reloaded and ready for round two.

Oh and I have three job interviews upcoming. Yay!