Fy, I have tried to live my life by certain standards. They are of my choosing. They include the people and things that I hold dear. I know who I am and what I stand for. And I know that the people who really know me, know that and that is what matters to me.
I do not want to get into a pis$ing match here with you or anyone else. You apologized and then proceeded to write the following. And so, I am left to try to understand how you can do both.
Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
My issue with the M vows is that they are absolute. Literally, we are vowing to stand by our spouse through everything… forever, when obviously sometimes there is no way we could. Am I the only one who struggles with this?
I do not understand the above. On the one hand you are saying we should stand forever. On the other you are saying it isnt always possible. So, who gets to judge when someone has done enough? Who gets to decide that when one person is standing that he is better than someone who isn't?
Here's what I know about me. I left no stone unturned. I have absolutely no regrets in how I stood. I honored my marriage and my h by acting with dignity throughout. I never once said a bad word about him to our son, which allowed them to have a relationship.I have and still do, treat him with respect. I hope with all my heart that he finds happiness. I pray for him daily.
I am not going to continue to defend my actions to you, or anyone else for that matter.
I have and will continue to try to give people hope. What I wont do is judge anyone on their decisions. Those are theirs to make.
I wish you well on your life's journey, FY. I hope it is everything you want it to be.
