"I was not asking if I should say that to him (no more talks for him)... I was asking you guys!! LOL"
Only can you can determine the answers to the above. What have you learned from the conversations that you've had w/him over the last several weeks. How do you feel about them and the fact that he's still right where he was a year ago in the "I dunno" spot.
You've begun to make progress in understanding that you are the only one in control of your destiny. You are learning that in order to be heard, that you can't be afraid to speak up, however, once you've spoken leave the subject alone. There is no need to continue to clarify your thoughts if you have spoken clearly about your needs, etc. You are learning to make decisions for yourself instead of seeking them from everyone else and then picking and choosing what you think is right for you.
Now, you must ask yourself this...do you trust yourself enough to leave it alone for several weeks? Do you trust yourself to be okay and accept whatever he decides to do?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
