I am so worried that when she goes to a Israel she will fall deeper for OM And when she returns we will be done.
If it were my wife, I would be "done" REGARDLESS of whether or not she fell more deeply for him. Simply GOING would be enough for ME to decide that *I* was done!!!
Why is she doing this to you? For the same reason that dogs lick themselves. Sorry to be so blunt Oxford, but your weakness is no doubt a huge turn-off for your wife at this point. You can stand up strong to her and still lose her, that is true -- there are no guarantees. But I can pretty much GUARANTEE you that if you DON'T . . . you WILL lose her.
Your wife will begin respecting your marriage as soon as you do.
