Mach, Yes, 2 plus years of no sex with my W does make me feel uncomfortable. I think it is unfair and completely inaccurate of you to say I bitch about it though. Maybe recheck my posts regarding that accusation.
I have....
Just cause I don't post to you often, doesn't mean that I don't read...
Would you prefer it if I said that you whined, instead of bitched ???
Whine, bitch, moan, whatever the semantics is being used here...what I am seeing is that you are invalidating FY's frustrations with living in a sexless M for 2 long years. He is within his prerogative to express his wish for a more intimate M relationship that includes sexual relations.
FY is charting progress or lack of progress here as a means to keep him focused on how far things have come in his sitch.
I think it is grossly unfair to come down hard on FY with this. Jeez, I personally wouldn't be able to endure a sexless M for a long duration. Isn't that what two people come together in a marriage...to unite in love and be united in a sexual unison as partners.
From my view, it is patently clear to me that FY truly does love his W. It is outrageous to suggest that FY is using a sex yardstick in standing for his M. That is NOT the case at all from his threads.
To demean and degrade FY's innermost desire to have an intimate and passionate sexual R with his own W once again as just "sex" is just awful.
