Where do you want to be right now, today? Who do you want to be right now, today?
Assuming these are rhetorical questions with (perhaps) somewhat more abstract answers, but I'm going to answer them anyway with somewhat concrete answers...
Right now, today, I want to be right where I am--In this house, with my kids and my wife.
Who I want to be right now, today, is not simply a father and husband but also the person I have been slowly but surely becoming over the past couple of months...kinder, gentler, stronger (physically and mentally), more open to the world around me, and more compassionate.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14