Originally Posted By: LoisB

But, maybe all this hubbub (how defensive you were with Ur) means it's time in your journey to reevaluate your position? Time to take inventory, as it were?

Maybe the stuff coming up on the boards is really just a symptom of some stirrings in your heart...some questions you may be having yourself?


I know, Heather. I've been talking about taking a break from the alt (mostly) and here. It's like a secret life that I can't share with my W. Not a great thing to help us build something new together, I figure.

Others here have taken a break and it seemed to have helped them. Maybe it's time, but I know from experience it's hard for me to pull back. I do like to help others. (and have fun!)


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl