I'm going to go through with a separation agreement - both to protect myself, and to show her I'm moving on without her. It's really the last card I have to play.
Scrreeeeech!! Brake, brake!
Something as serious as a SA shouldn't be a tactic to control someone.
Do it because it's the best thing to protect you right now. H
Have no expectation that it will manipulate her into coming back.
Only move on if you're truly moving on.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss