Originally Posted By: Pluto
I'm going to go through with a separation agreement - both to protect myself, and to show her I'm moving on without her. It's really the last card I have to play.


Scrreeeeech!! Brake, brake!

Something as serious as a SA shouldn't be a tactic to control someone.

Do it because it's the best thing to protect you right now. H

Have no expectation that it will manipulate her into coming back.

Only move on if you're truly moving on.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss