I think you opened your big mouth and said something really stupid when I first read your comment yesterday. I thought...oh boy, isn't he gonna hear it from uRW!! uRW has articulated her position quite eloquently in her own spirited defense. However, I feel very strongly that Cat went a bit too far in calling you a snake the grass.
I think you've done an admirable job of standing. With that said, I am in agreement that uRW asked very valid questions in order to get you to dig deep on the merits of standing. When will it be far enough at your own expense? It is a personal choice for each person here.
