This is a really helpful thread, I'm sorry to see it dying a little bit.

So here's my contribution:

1. Get to work on house projects that I've let idle while I melted down over H.
2. Get my running in shape again, register for 5k and half-marathon I've had my eye on, get training plan set up and implement it.
3. Meet with attorney and decide what I want to do about divorce/separation
3a. Make H understand that I'm not waiting in the wings for HIM to decide what he wants -- I am worth fighting for. If he can't see that then it's his loss.
4. Sort out what I want from IC and set some goals there as well
5. Get my resume in order and get to work finding a job that I feel great about.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.