This is a really helpful thread, I'm sorry to see it dying a little bit.
So here's my contribution:
1. Get to work on house projects that I've let idle while I melted down over H. 2. Get my running in shape again, register for 5k and half-marathon I've had my eye on, get training plan set up and implement it. 3. Meet with attorney and decide what I want to do about divorce/separation 3a. Make H understand that I'm not waiting in the wings for HIM to decide what he wants -- I am worth fighting for. If he can't see that then it's his loss. 4. Sort out what I want from IC and set some goals there as well 5. Get my resume in order and get to work finding a job that I feel great about.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15