Ugh, I just got a few logistical communications from H and they were definitely quite cold. I really don't understand how to do this. I reach out to him and he's VERY receptive. But according to DBing I should NOT pursue so I leave him alone and now he seems cold. I don't know if I should keep leaving him alone or try to reach out again and see what kind of result comes from that. I constantly feel caught between a rock and a hard place.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14