Need opinions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

H is going on vacation with OW and her kids. He expects me to keep the twins on his days, but said if I made plans he would ask his mom to babysit as normal. BUT he expects me to drive the 30 min to get her and take her home on all 3 days.

one of the days is my S7 birthday party and I will not be able to run after the twins and numerous 8yr olds at a fun center.

Do I take a hard nosed approach and this is a vacation you planned, you have responsibilities so YOU need to take care of everything (ie not rescuing him) or do I step in and make his life easy?

Starsky and 25yrs PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me a good script to use!!!


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction