You are doing well Maybell. This is hard stuff. The impotant things that I learned from pearlharbor, and all the advice she got, was that strong boundaries are a must and for YOU. Also al0ng with boundries you need to GAL and work on those things that you feel will make you a better you. (you probably know this already)
If your H was asking you to go to his home for the sofa delivery, well yes to me that is a big request. Next time he wants your time tell him "sorry, I have plans that day" or something like that. I have been trying to show my boundries through actions, not words (although I was much better at this before H wanted C and now I need to figure out my line.) Anyway, I felt your strength in the post before your last one. You have this.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014