I am curious if others are having the same experience as I am. Since I've shared my story with friends, I can't tell you how many have come forward and revealed either affairs or 'almost' affairs. People I would have NEVER suspected. It's so bizarre, while in an odd way it's comforting to know we're part of this heinous norm, it also feels like it further rocks my world and reality. I kind of feel like NO ONE can be trusted, how sad.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14