Wife walking away

[LBSinTX]

Sandy,

Thanks for the feedback. I have kept it friendly. School will be out soon so they'll be going to daycare and I won't see her or them daily. My appearance is the best it's been since we've been together. I was actually losing weight before we separated but continuing to work on it still. Bought some new clothes and cologne. Need to have better defined goals about my self work which includes being more confident and overcoming the insecurity that contributed to our relationship problems. It was a trying day today because we spent about 4 hours today at a car dealership together. I was only there because she asked me and we agreed that she would trade in one of the cars that we own mutually and I would keep the other. We probably talked too much. She was on the verge of tears because she wasn't getting what she wanted. She complained that she's no better off financially today than she was before we met and she's tired of settling. She doesn't see her own complicity in our situation. I truly believe she's depressed. She's been posting so much on Facebook lately about being excited about starting over and how happy she is but when I'm around her her body language seems to tell a different story. Maybe it's just when she's around me. I am going to go dark but keep it cordial and about business when we see each other. She's worried about her living situation and transportation. I'm not sorry for her but I do acknowledge that she's the kind of person who won't notice any change in me or miss me, etc... as long as those things are unsettled.