Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

[rayzzz]

Just thought I'd check in.
Things seem to be a little bit better than back to normal. Since the 'cold-thaw' two days ago when my wife was the nicest and most curious she has ever been about me since she dropped the "D" word two months ago. She has withdrawn a bit cautiously but maybe she is getting her guard up again because I am 180ing and going a bit dark--detaching but appearing friendly and happy with boundaries. Honestly I wanna scream and pole vault over my boundaries and just gush about my love for her but I know that would send me back about fifty miles in progress. She keeps hinting that we should have a conversation...about our separation...about the logistics of moving out and the kids? I dont know but I will wait a few days and when she really presses will start a dialogue.
You veterans are all right about not getting too happy too fast over progress that happens. I was overjoyed she wanted to be near me again, but now she has cooled so this is a battle of "seeing if my changes stick" and her "I'm going to re-committ myself" to the M sticks. Right now I am breathing those deep breathless sighs over the WAW I love but gonna stay on the operating table and keep changing my heart and life ruthlessly.another couple hours of job hunting awaits me.