Yesterday I ran into a friend I haven't seen in a while and didn't know my H and I are split up. She told me she had openings at her work in my H career. However, due to his drinking, she wouldn't recommend him. H would have to apply without her reference. I don't feel its okay to tell him? The job would be great but...she also didn't want to call him. Again, alcohol is rearing his ugly head. First marriage and like I've known would happen, his career. I would really like some advice from those lives are/were impacted and familiar with alcoholic spouses.. I'm thinking I should just let it go but it's nagging at me. I DON'T want to tell him to punish or through it in his face. I just want to share it to let him know the consequences of his actions. But I know he doesn't care or the alcohol doesn't care.
Last edited by NotAgainPlease; 05/26/1403:19 PM.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
