We can never completely understand the feelings of another.
Keep that in the forefront of your mind and it might keep you from stepping in those holes. Really listen when she talks, don't worry about what your response is going to be, just listen. Then if a response is called for, do it but think about where you're responding from.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
