I know he is good for you. I know you love him and he is more of a husband than your actual husband ever was. I guess I meant there has to be a way to still stay unmarried but celebrate your commitment.
I know you are both blessed to have each other.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I think sometimes I get "stuck" on how I think I want it. & I'm no quitter! My parents say I was the most determined of their 4 kids. If I set my ind on something - they knew I'd keep bugging till I got it or kept working till I achieved it.
I hate being asked almost weekly in some form or another about our R. It just bugs me. At my service club, at the hospital, going through Customs. He is my "partner" - it just sounds so Unromantic. But he IS romantic and sweet & kind to animals & wait staff in restaurants - I could go on.
Sometimes I just wonder if it is because he is so shy. I love the party - he does too but doesn't want to be the star....
But I have more important things to focus on. Like enjoying my life.
That's all.
Not sure he would go for the rings idea. He did agree to talk with a lawyer with me about our common law status
