Josh (a seemingly confirmed bachelor) has mad a lot of compromises. First - buying a second house. Second - driving to said second house every week where he takes on probably more than half the work as well as doing so much to help me with the cats, cooking, cleaning etc. third - he has taken on the commitment of helping look after Ryan - all the time I'm in Florida he comes here & stays with him 3 nights a week.
Just the commuting (2.5 or 3 hours) every weekend is a lot.
Just my observation.
Yes - I wish he "got" how much I'd love the ring & the wedding but in my mind - I'm one of the luckiest girls alive to have a guy like him.