Good advice. I just think if you are so obviously trying to convince yourself that you are fine, then you aren't. If it is so clear to you what you want, need and deserve,why settle for anything else?

Barb, I think it would be hard to be in your place. There is love and commitment there just not the ceremony and legality. You have been compromising, what is Josh's compromise? Could you have a declaration of love ceremony or something along those lines, if you want that ?

Love, why does it get so complicated?

kat


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