How to listen so kids will talk & talk so kids will listen. Go get it and read it immediately and if you already did, read it again. She is trying to move you toward a new more grownup relationship where you advise less and listen more. She made a good decision about cheating and deserved for that to be heard; feeling unheard is going to set her off. Writing her off for the next 10 years (no matter how you intended that) is not the way to go. She needs a new kind of love from you, that recognizes that she has good judgment and ideas of her own and will become a fine adult.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
