New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

Ok so today......
Usually H has the twins on Sunday after I take them to church. Today was AMAZING weather so I decided to take the older boys to the zoo this afternoon. I called H when we got home from church and asked if he had plans with the twins today as I had promised the older boys the first good weather Sunday we would visit the zoo and they both have been missing their little brother/sister a lot and wanted them to come with.

H said he had planned to take them to the zoo today (with OW and her kids) I explained that S13 and S7 really missed the twins and wanted to spend the day with them and I would make up for it by letting H have next Saturday.
He said ok, but was kind of upset. I offered that he could come with us, he just said he was still going with OW. I said that will be very awkward being at the same place, he said "it's a big zoo" (Brookfield)
He kind of started into how he doesn't get many days off with them (he was a workaholic during our relationship choosing to stay at work instead of coming home)
I told him I really appreciate him allowing the twins to spend extra time with their brothers. I then told him I wanted to confirm he would not be using our membership as it would cause a problem if we both tried to scan in. He said he was going to (the thought of OW pretending to be ME and her kids pretending to be MY boys makes me want to vomit) I remained calm as I said I just don't want there to be an issue when I get there. He sounded frustrated and said "ok, do you know where the coupons are we had?"
I told him to enjoy his day and hung up.

I decided I emotionally could not handle running into them there so I took the kids to Lincoln Park Zoo instead (smaller, downtown Chicago) I didn't tell H that.
He sent a text when he got there saying "just got here, hbu?"
I didn't reply until I was home and said "sorry, left my phone in the car. Kids had a BLAST"
He replied with "the weather is so nice"