Yeah, and pride will stand in the way of my H ever admitting he made a mistake sometime down the road. I also think pride is in the way now -- he has been telling people for 1 year he's ending the marriage, that there was no hope, so he probably feels he has to start DOING something about it, that if he doesn't, people will start asking him, pressuring him, and he'll look crazy (which he is)...
I don't think we can get them to see anything they don't want to see, Matt. That's the letting go of control part. They are not ready. They have to do what they have to do, and we just can't help them now. Wish it were different...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
