Hi Matt - I haven't followed all of the details of your sitch, but I'm familiar. Reading this today from you - this is how I'm feeling too today. I could have written your last paragraph about my H too. Some days are like that. Maybe harder for you because you still see her regularly. Mine has now gone AWOL. Only communication is e-mail, and only when necessary. So in some ways, I envy you, that you still have some opportunities to DB. Probably seems almost impossible to you today, but maybe tomorrow you'll feel differently. I don't have any words of advice right now, but only that you're not alone, believe me. We're all going through this together, and pulling for each other. Nothing lasts forever, even our troubles. Who said that recently, maybe TL72? Wise words...I hope the rest of this week is better for you and me both.


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15