Thanks IH and Wonka.

Divorce Remedy says to experiment and monitor results. But it doesn't mention how to do that while in NC.

My WAW is sober but has been struggling with depression, anger etc and is not in treatment. She quit AA months ago. WHile she's not drinking, she's been mentally struggling.

There is no OM, I simply don't think she is in the right frame of mind to be dating. Prior to bomb, she was home on time everyday and spent weekends with me and our girls. She also wanted me to get her an engagement ring 3 days prior to bomb and we were actively looking at houses with our realtor.

Everyone thinks its some bi-polar episode, although I've never seen her exhibit behavior like this before. I've researched AA websites and they frequently talk about "dry drunk syndrome". She's sober but sick right now.