What "strategy" are you talking about here??! It sounds like you're trying to play Risk or Monopoly here and contemplating your next "move". That isn't how DBing works.
I went back a bit on your thread and it seems that your W is struggling with alcoholism at this stage. Right? What would be the appropriate thing for you to do right there?
Not sure...isn't your W involved with OM at all? I might have missed that one.