New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

Just a quick reply as we are just leaving the zoo (will post that ordeal later)

180's are being "non judgemental" aka "accepting" of his family even they do stupid crap. I have actually formed a MUCH closer bond with mil since separation.
Having my older boys be more responsible around the house (I always thought I should do everything as I am a sahm) they now have posted chores and reward chart and there is visible evidence of them helping around the house.
Staying calm when disciplining my older boys (I am a VERY strict parent) the zoloft and ativan don't hurt when doing this, lol!!!